So, dude. how do people feel like like they belong to something. I mean, let me be blunt, I am kinda convinced that I am just a very basic bitch. Although, even with that, I'm kinda a failure at being basic at the same time. Can't say I am really all that good at figuring out if I do belong to a certain idea?
Not to get all that deep and shit, but I am not used to the concept of belonging anywhere. I don't have an actual culture, and spent a lot of time just moving 'round. A regtig nomad. So the idea of being linked to something seems like something that I would never really be able to get?
Plus, again, I'm a basic bitch. I can't say I know any Goth or Emo or proper metal or punk or pop or indie. So I feel like I'm kinda shit at this. Like I do like some Metal and have listened to a lot of old school bands as a side effect of my dad being a metalhead. But I wouldn't call myself a proper metalhead.
I guess I just find it interesting to have people who align themselves with something. Like not an ideal but more of a case of being like 'ha, I'm a metalhead', or 'I'm a punk' or something like that. Honestly, not even furries work like that. A lot of people are in a grey zone where they don't really count as either a proper furry or a non-furry. Like do werewolves count as furries?
It does make sense, however, as humans do like grouping up. Most of the time people like being around people that agree with them, group dynamics and that fact that humans are social creatures. But it's just very strange to me that people are able to group up like that. Also, how do people not end up getting imposter syndrome?
Like, dude I am convinced that I am not really a gamer, 'cause well, I only play somewhat recent games and I really suck at them. But theoritically I am a gamer as the requirement to be one is just play games. The only time the type of game you play matters is fot subdividions of gamers, like casual gamers, soulslike gamers, fps gamers. But it's still kinda interesting that some people don't really seem to act like they have imposter victims.